Meanwhile, gay men say I’m going through a phase and tell me how they used to be bi, and that I’ll realise soon enough.
Women see me as their gay best friend and desexualise me, erasing my sexuality in the process. Bi men are seen as secretly gay, so women refuse to date us, and gay men refuse to get together with us because they think we’re still in the closet. For bisexual men, this often means we get rejected from both men and women when it comes to dating.
